Part 5 – Giving Birth Experience

May 17, 2014

 

Today, I am on the fourth day of my confinement. Decided to write and share about my giving birth experience as soon as possible since everything is still fresh in my mind.Our baby Sofea Eliza binti Johan Ariff is born at 7.07pm on the 14.05.2014. To be completely honest, it is nothing like I ever imagine at all.

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I was given earlier MC by doctor since I had the PUPP so I spend my time resting and waiting anxiously for the “sign” of giving birth. So, what happen was on the 13th May 2014 (happen to be Wesak Day and my hubby went for some finance conference at Royal Chulan luckily bro is at home.. thank goodnes!) Anyway, the first sign shows at around 6pm where I noticed a clear jelly type of mucus super thick came out of my private part. Like quite alot. My hubby took the picture of the stuff but I decided not to post it up since it is gross ( if you are currently pregnant and curious to know how does it look like, do email or pm me at my fan page.. I am willing to share just incase it would help you out).

I didnt feel any pain what so ever when the mucus came out. Doc do informed us to come to hospital if there is sign. I didnt know it was a sign ( so blur gosh!) and we end up calling my mum in laws and googling what is that. My hubby even contacted his friends to find out what is that. We were told it was a mucus plug.

From readings, I found out that this plug is formed in the cervical canal and provides protection against bacteria entering the uterus. A pregnant woman usually looses this plug at "term" (anytime between 37-42 weeks) or during labour. When you loose your mucous plug it means the the cervix is ripening (ie softening, dilating, thinning) to some degree to allow it to pass. Which means it is near!! you going to see your baby anytime soon.

So ya after that, my hubby help feed me some food ( I might need lots of energy of giving birth later) and give me a bath shampoo my hair (since during confinement I wont allowed to wash my hair.. ya…. tell me about it). Once done sudah comel, it is around 8pm when I reach the hospital. At that moment I only felt a mild contraction. I can still walk talk and make jokes.

As I reached, we were lead to labour room. Only husband is allowed to accompany. As I go in, I was given the patient’s uniform to change and then lay on the bed. I was in pain so I dont really remember all the details. What I do remember was device were put on my tummy to check baby heart beat, my heart beat as well as the contraction.

At first contraction painful but bearable that is around 9pm –10pm. Then I was given with a medicine (liquid form) into my buttocks. This medicine were given to ensure that I had bowel movement and to remove all the food in my intestine. The main reason of this is so that it wont “interfere” during the actual labour session.

 

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At that time, my opening was 3cm. Doc said it have to be 10cm before we could proceed for normal birth. We have to wait. So, we waited.

As we waited, time pass. To me every minute pass SUPER slow as the contraction pain increasing like nobody business. Ater few hours around 2am in the morning, my opening was checked again and it shows 4cm opening. Still long way to go. Yes, we have to wait again.

I cant bear the pain anymore, nurse gave me 3 pain killer option. Either gas, spinal injection or epidural. I decided to go for spinal injection. Thank you ALLAH. Pain felt slightly lesser (didnt go away completely) and it is bearable. do bear in mind that my tolerance level for pain is considered high. At this time I have spent around 10 hours in contraction pain since I was given with the injection at 6am.

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The opening still shows 4cm, OMG when will you increase??? When the morning came at around 9am my OB came and check my opening and consult me with my option. She told me, that we going to wait few more hours if I still want to try natural birth. They going to start inducing me to increase the contraction hoping that it will help increase the size of the opening.

At first dosage given was 3ml then increased gradually until 48ml. OMG it is the most painful experience ever that I dont know how to explain the pain to others. You have to experience it to understand how it felt. I cant find a right word to describe it  T.T

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It is pass lunchtime and I was still in pain and no improvement on the opening. Then around 3pm my water broke. Like a gushhhhhh of water just came out automatically. Banjir like nobody business. I am like a leaking tank at that time.

To cut the story short, by 6pm my opening is still 4cm. Doc said one of the main reason is because my baby is big and she cant enter the “laluan”. So after nearly 23 hours of contraction pain, we had no other option but to go for caesarean.

I was prepared for the Operation theather and my contraction is super intense at the moment. All I could remember was, I was escorted to the  room then doc explain to me the procedure and I  need to sign some concerned doc.

In the labour room, I was injected with and half of my body turn out to be numb. Thank goodnes!! I honestly cant stand the pain of the contraction anymore. My hubby was at my side the whole time. I am really thankful to have him as my husband. I cant believe that he was in the operation room during the procedure to give support.

After awhile, I heard baby scream and I can see my baby right after that. Nurse clean her and put her head close to mine. I am still lying on the operation bed but it was the most magical moment ever. I will remember and cherish it forever. So, that is the summary of my giving birth experience! Smile 

Photo: Thank you for visiting baby sofea n mummy :) <3

Photo: Thank you datang jumpa baby sofea :)

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Photo: 2 days old Baby sofea cakap "Thank you uncle2 auntie2 kakak2 n abang2 yang datang visit. Today saya dan mummy saya da bole discharge from hospital :) "

The next day our friends and family come and visit Baby Sofea, mummy and daddy! It is a very happy day for us. We glad to share the happiness with our support group Smile Thank you to everyone who came and visit us.Not forgetting those who whatsapp, message,call, inbox to congratulate. We appreciate it so much! Thank you for being so kind to us.

I did my whole pregnancy consultation at Tropicana Medical Center with  Dr. Nurhazinat Yunus. She is Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist, Fertility Specialist at the hospital. She is very kind, patience and I have good experience having my pregnancy journey monitored by her. Would recommend her if you would like to opt for Tropicana Hospital Smile plus the hospital have my medical records starting from my miscarriage incident last year. We decided to opt for Tropicana since it is also the nearest hospital to our home and living in kota damansara (jam 24 hours)  I dont want to give birth in the car T.T if we opt for further hospital that might be one of the option hahaha.. actually I dont mind to go to gov hospital.. okay I do heard of some not so nice experience at gov hospital but to me it depends because I do heard of those who had a nice experience there as well.

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 Before check out, we were given with some documents to sign as well as support docs needed for our bay registration and goodie bag from the hospital. How cute right? Anyway, thank you so much for reading my lengthy post and I hope this helps to provide you with some inside info of a giving birth experience Smile 

Till later ya… I will also share what do I eat during my confinement and what products were used during this session in future post. Arigato and have an awesome day ahead!

 

 

 

* I am not paid to write this . This is my personal experience (obviously) we paid for everything like any other customer. As usual, I will test and review products or services regardless of whether they have been sent to me or not with honesty. Unless stated so in the post or marked with an asterisk, all products featured on this blog have been bought with my own hard-earned pennies. I started this blog to give my two pennies worth of thought and have fun along the way and that is exactly how this blog shall remain.

32 comments:

  1. Cantiknya nama dia kak. Sofea Eliza! Selamat datang sayang. Semoga besar jadi anak solehah. Kak, i read each word and line, lepas tu rasa sakit sendiri. Auch! Besar sungguh pengorbanan seorang ibu. Jaga diri elok-elok kak semasa berpantang. Semoga cepat sihat. Alhamdulillah semuanya dipermudahkan Allah. Tak sabar nak jumpa Baby Sofea!

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    1. sofea = beautiful
      eliza = unique and precious

      tu maksud nama dia :) hari ni dia dau mur 5 hari <3 Baby Sofea cakap thank you kak innanie sebab doakan yang baik untuk saya n mummy <3

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  2. Woah all the flood of emotions. I could feel the intensity, pain, love...like a thunderstorm tht bless us with rainbows.

    Thanks for sharing this Illy :)
    Best wishes in health & congrats once again :)

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    1. Thank you for reading my humble post babe :)

      More than happy to share the happiness <3 arigato for the kind wishes as well!!

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  3. I totally LOL at the "once done sudah comel" XD congrats illy mummy hope you have a speedy recovery and baby sofea to grow up healthily!

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    1. Thank you babe :P hahhaha.. ya.. sudah mandi so means sudah comel <3

      baby sofea said thanks to you too! <3

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  4. such a beautiful baby girl!! Congrats babe :)

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    1. arigato Lisa <3 thank you for the kind wishes!!

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  5. Such a beautiful little girl! Nama sebijik macam my friend, pun cantik orangnya hehe always loved the name! Congrats mama <3

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    1. yer ker? hahahaha... comel nyer <3 terima kasih tau for the wish

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  6. Illy, congrates again ya for the birth of Sofea Eliza ^_^ Mieza baca your post, rasa terkesan kat hati ni when reading setiap patah perkataan about the process and the pain of giving birth. Thanks, for reminding me of how much my mom has sacrificed beranakkan anak 5 orang (3 normal, 2 ceasar). InsyaAllah I pray that Sofea will be anak yang membahagiakan dan menyejukkan hati Illy and Johan :) selamat berpantang and take care Illy ^_^

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    1. Alhamdulilah :) thank you so much Mieza.. Thumbs up for your mum... hebat 5 kali gempak! salute! :)

      thank you doakan yg terbaik for baby sofea <3

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  7. lahh akk kat tropicana je ke im living in kota damansara kot btw kak that 23hrs is killer n yup scray but No No i am still so excited to get marry n give birth..insyAllah. its so beautiful how Allah give us (woman) teh opportunity which guy dont hv kan...take care ok kak n cium baby sofea utk sy. c ya soon :)

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    1. ler.. berjiran ker kita ni? hahaha

      yezza 23 hours, masa tu Allah jer yg tahu.. tapi lepas dpt tengok baby semua sakit hilang terus <3 n yes, I doakan you jumpa suami yg baik n dapat anak comel2 in the future :) Aminnnnnnn

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  8. wahh..congrats dear..welcome to mummy world..hehe..selamat berpantang yer..kita baru habis berpantang...^_)

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    1. Alhamdulilah :) thank you babe! ni baru masuk hari ke 6.. countdown hehehe

      take care yer <3

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  9. can't wait for my turn plak ...
    terasa plak sakit macam mana ...huhuhuhuhu ...
    congrats for the newborn dear

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    1. illy doakan semua berjalan lancar and dipermudahkan urusan bersalin you nanti :) take care! n welcome to motherhood <3

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  10. Salam if you dont mind berapa kos bersalin with Dr Nurhazinat at TMC???

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    1. you kena consult dengan mereka direct sebab each person condition is different :)

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  11. Salam dear! Nice nice blog there ;))
    Just want to know the package delivery for normal n caeser please dear.
    Thank you so much in advance! ;))

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    1. salam Ella :) thank you for dropping by.. minta maaf reply lamabt ni baru perasan your comment :) sorry!!

      tak silap dorang takde package, each barang dia bill itemized so really depending on your situation.. if not mistaken kalua yg normal lebih kurang rm3.5k -5k kalau ceaser bole naik 2 atau 3 kali ganda depending condition you, kalau doc lain then consultant rate dia lain.. pastu tengok pula jenis pain killer you ambik kalau epidural harga lain, oxygen harga lain and so on ans so forth..
      hope it helps.. you try pergi consultation dulu, nanti bincang dgn doc.. bole minta second or third opinion :) i hope everything goes smooth for you! <3

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  12. wow! you are a really brave girl! i went through the same thing, but i thank god everything went smooth. the most important thing is that mummy and baby are safe!

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    1. happy to know your delivery went smooth :) n yes most important is that mummy n baby is safe :)

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  13. Pregnancy journey ni kene selalu baca..walau anak berapa ramai pun. kita akan lupa balik hehe

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  14. no one will know the feeling except as a "mother", thumbs up to all the mummy in the world!

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  15. Saya anak pertama pun induce juga.. Tapi alhamdulillahh.. Lepas 2 jam bersalin dah.. Tapi sakit induce ni.. Mmg tak terkata lah sakitnya... Xleh nak describe... Uhuhuhu...

    Terjah blog saya, jom!  DAPATKAN INFO , TIP , PETUA MENGENAI KEHAMILAN DAN KESUBURAN DI SINI

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  16. Salam sis..bole.email sye x kos bersalin dgn doctor nurhazinat..sbb skrg x decide nk bersalin dgn doctor arifah or doctor nurhazinat

    iyan_3103@yahoo.com

    Tq sis :)

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